During a spur-of-the-moment writing frenzy triggered by Mike (Sunstreaker) of HCP's Singles Club, I was able to come up with a response to the question that he posted in one of the forum's threads.
His question was "If God will give you a choice to meet and be with the man with whom you will spend your lifetime, what attributes will you love to have him possess?"
So here is my (extremely detailed and wordy) reply:
He holds my hand. He kisses my forehead. He sings me a lullaby no matter how off-key he may be. He opens doors and holds out chairs for me. He wipes my face when I perspire. He spoils me. He prepares food for me, even though he does not know the first thing about cooking. He lets me drive his car. He reminds me of things that I have to do. He lets me choose which music I want to listen to in the car. He accompanies me whenever I go shopping, no matter how tedious and boring it could be for him. He is a drinking buddy. He compliments me at every possible chance. He matches his clothes to what I am wearing. He strokes my hair ever so gently. He surprises me with flowers and hidden love notes. He dedicates songs to me. He gives me a backrub or a massage whenever I need one. He lends me his reading glasses whenever I get eyestrain. He cracks the corniest of jokes to make me smile. He is patient whenever I get mood swings. He soothes and comforts me whenever I feel down. He lets down his pride. He encourages me. He motivates me. He understands and accepts me for who I am and for who I have been. He is a shoulder to lean on, yet he turns to me for help whenever he needs advice. He trusts me with all his heart. He hugs me tight. He places his head on my lap. He watches over me when I fall asleep, then covers me with a blanket. He lends me his shirts. He waits for me until I get home. He goes to church with me. He tries to involve himself in my interests and interacts with my circle of friends. He cancels his appointments for the day just to be with me. He is a hopeless romantic. He takes me out on dates no matter how long we have been together. He speaks his mind. He reads my mind. He senses my emotions. He attunes himself to my moods. He is the epitome of sweetness. He is both creative and dynamic. He is both strong-willed and independent. He is both eloquent and transparent. He tries to engage in intellectual converations with me. He is never afraid of unlearning... and relearning. He challenges me. He shows his appreciation whenever I do something for him. He joins me in my pursuit of happiness. He takes me to my favorite restaurants and places where I would want to spend some quiet time with him. He drives me to and from work. He would not mind watching sappy romantic movies with me. He is not afraid of shedding a tear when he has to. He thanks me for loving him. He would not hesitate to spend on my dream wedding. He cries as I walk down the altar. He is both a friend and a confidante. He is willing to grow with me. He includes me in his plans for the future and shares them with me. He reminisces happy moments with me. He is every little thing I have always wanted. He tells me that I am the most beautiful person in his eyes. He tilts my face towards his and looks deep into my eyes so that words need not be uttered in order to express his feelings for me. He is my source of strength and inspiration, my laughter, my light, my life... and he never fails to let me feel that he loves me every single day of my life.
His question was "If God will give you a choice to meet and be with the man with whom you will spend your lifetime, what attributes will you love to have him possess?"
So here is my (extremely detailed and wordy) reply:
He holds my hand. He kisses my forehead. He sings me a lullaby no matter how off-key he may be. He opens doors and holds out chairs for me. He wipes my face when I perspire. He spoils me. He prepares food for me, even though he does not know the first thing about cooking. He lets me drive his car. He reminds me of things that I have to do. He lets me choose which music I want to listen to in the car. He accompanies me whenever I go shopping, no matter how tedious and boring it could be for him. He is a drinking buddy. He compliments me at every possible chance. He matches his clothes to what I am wearing. He strokes my hair ever so gently. He surprises me with flowers and hidden love notes. He dedicates songs to me. He gives me a backrub or a massage whenever I need one. He lends me his reading glasses whenever I get eyestrain. He cracks the corniest of jokes to make me smile. He is patient whenever I get mood swings. He soothes and comforts me whenever I feel down. He lets down his pride. He encourages me. He motivates me. He understands and accepts me for who I am and for who I have been. He is a shoulder to lean on, yet he turns to me for help whenever he needs advice. He trusts me with all his heart. He hugs me tight. He places his head on my lap. He watches over me when I fall asleep, then covers me with a blanket. He lends me his shirts. He waits for me until I get home. He goes to church with me. He tries to involve himself in my interests and interacts with my circle of friends. He cancels his appointments for the day just to be with me. He is a hopeless romantic. He takes me out on dates no matter how long we have been together. He speaks his mind. He reads my mind. He senses my emotions. He attunes himself to my moods. He is the epitome of sweetness. He is both creative and dynamic. He is both strong-willed and independent. He is both eloquent and transparent. He tries to engage in intellectual converations with me. He is never afraid of unlearning... and relearning. He challenges me. He shows his appreciation whenever I do something for him. He joins me in my pursuit of happiness. He takes me to my favorite restaurants and places where I would want to spend some quiet time with him. He drives me to and from work. He would not mind watching sappy romantic movies with me. He is not afraid of shedding a tear when he has to. He thanks me for loving him. He would not hesitate to spend on my dream wedding. He cries as I walk down the altar. He is both a friend and a confidante. He is willing to grow with me. He includes me in his plans for the future and shares them with me. He reminisces happy moments with me. He is every little thing I have always wanted. He tells me that I am the most beautiful person in his eyes. He tilts my face towards his and looks deep into my eyes so that words need not be uttered in order to express his feelings for me. He is my source of strength and inspiration, my laughter, my light, my life... and he never fails to let me feel that he loves me every single day of my life.
my gosh. gusto ko rin ito ma-meet! nyahahaha.. pero honestly speaking, i don't think i've ever met any one guy who has all of the above qualities. perfect na yata yan ygy e! or gay. haha! ;)
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